First off, Thanks to content city team for giving me chance and they are the best set of people I have till now.
I have a habit of just being adrift in my thoughts for hours(Some people will say overthinking), and in it, one favorite topic of mine is, What does change, brings us?
I will try to give you an insight on change by asking questions to your self.
CONSISTENCY IS DEATH. (Burnt-2015)
Just think what happens if you wore the same clothes every day or have to eat the same food every day (For food I really can’t). Change is the important thing that we have in our life. Some are like I can’t/won’t change which has cost them more than what that they can afford (At least that’s what we have heard). So it is what it is (The first question)????
Will, I able to do it? Will I get over him? Will, I able to handle this mess?
And always the answer is I can’t or I won’t be able to and yes that’s the end and no story after it. Here I just wanted to tell you that, just ask these questions, but don’t try to answer it by your assumptions, keep the mountain of your self-doubt aside. These assumptions are what that had taken many people down, it can make a millionaire an ice cream seller, the best couple to get divorced or get separated, the smarty pant to get dropped out. Remember we still are young nothing to lose, nothing on life except the time, which is only our investment.
Can I just give it a shot anyway?
Oh yeah now many of us will think due to Circumstances we cant! But its always the other way, The circumstances will change if you have that will. You just have to paddle hard enough. Another factor that adds up to hard work is a bit of self-control (Synonym: Discipline). If you see the track record of any successful person they are persistent with their schedule. I have always believed that What gets scheduled, gets done. Also, try to keep this rule in your head “6 months of tireless effort will push you 2 years ahead”. But even before the ship sail’s we fail to direct the rudder. Many people wanted to work hard enough but in which direction they don’t know.
Having a planned destination is halfway set.
To reach a place, we have to know first where to go else it will get us nowhere. This can be dodge by asking the question What will I do if money is not a thing, Believe me, a simple answer here can make your world upside down.
But hey I have seen people desperately following a path that they failed at. So what if I am one of them?
Their lies a saying “Anyone who had never make a mistake has never tried anything new”, Mistakes are the proof that we know something that’s not going to work but that wisdom originated from it will guide us to more precise path, in the end, its all about getting to destination via one path or another, but also keep in mind that Mistakes repeated more than once is a decision.
I have reached the top at a young age, is there any competition with me?
When you are young you believe it when people tell you how good you are, And that’s the danger you inhale Everyone will tell you you’re a genius which you are not and if you understand that you WIN. I know it sound complicated (What’s wrong in that people are uplifting me, I am feeling good of it, how can I ignore this stuff). This things are just meant to hinder you from your path. Once you are blinded with your pride you grow up, You inner child die, the creativity dies, the essence of hard work that was giving you satisfaction dies. You think that things will stay the way they are and you dont have to bring the CHANGE (The change is the thing that had given rise to the two TRILLION DOLLAR companies). But it is always that we have to keep working, It’s not the destination that fullfil our soul but it’s the PROCESS.
BUT ALSO REMEMBER TO MAKE STUPID THINGS IN BETWEEN WHICH CAN ADD FUN TO YOUR PROCESS